2) WHEN YOU'VE BUILT YOUR LIFE AROUND IT. Sometimes some people go into a relationship hoping it can result into marriage, at a marriageable age of let's say 29, people tend to get serious, not wanting to cheat, sometimes people who are desperately looking to settle down with a man or woman will go as far as cutting other ties with other people so as to get serious, now let's just say it now gets to a certain stage and maybe the man decides he's wanting out, it would hurt even more, because the woman may not have a second choice, because she didn't have a premonition that the man may fail her. 3) WHEN YOU LOVE THE OTHER PERSON SO DEEPLY. The popular saying that love is blind is of course sacrosanct. When love is involved of course there has to be pain, take for instance two people who loves each other deeply, they have stood together in the sun, they have endured pain, and yet they still kept on loving each other then suddenly let's say the girl now decides she wants more than just love, she wants möney, she grew up, and tragically she ends the relationship, the man here would be more than shattered, its like he planted a flower and watched it grow, now someone else takes it away. Now we need to realise true love is nearly impossible these days, all these thought may even make him decides that no other woman will appeal to him. 4) WHEN TOO MANY PROMISES WERE MADE. Promises they say are like unpaid debt, and we need to realise that in relationships when people tend to promise and promise and fail, its hurting. Let's say for example im in a relationships and everytime i see her with another male she say things like "BABE IT'S JUST A FRIEND, COM'ON ITS YOU I LOVE, I PROMISE TO NEVER BREAK YOUR HEART"
and fastforward to now she's gone those promise keeps lingering and lingering, and it brings tears, it kills joy and it would make a break up even hurt the more.
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